If blowing off someone, write or ignore

[Bryan]

when i respond to an admirer and write her and she writes back ideas that are not for me, like not wanting to work, having more child then i want etc, should you spend an emf and say not interested or save your money and just ignore her and move on to the next

[Richard]

Bryan would you like to be ignored??? Its only good manners to reply and explain differences etc after this if you do not want her to write back and use up credits you can block her, just do the right thing first.

[Tim]

I think it depends. For me I definiltly think it's importent to tell them in an EMF if you have exchanged a few letters already otherwise they will worry and be very sad that you just blew them up.
if you have only recieved one letter then they are not attached to you yet and wont be as upset or worried if you don't respond.
Think of it from their point of view. If you have been trading letters and you think things are going well and then they read something in your letter and decided to just not write anymore how would you feel?